Thank you BA and Joan. I'm going to see Will - haven't seen him since he moved in January - he's very happy now so it will be fun. They say as a paren you are only as happy as your least happy child - it's nice to have them both happy!
As to shoes BA, I currently live in my OnClouds (per my foot doctor) and flip flops (barefoot still preferred) I have some "dress-up" flats and that's about it - I was never a shoe person😁